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The easiest first step.

Three simple ways to begin

There are three simple ways to begin, and none of them costs you anything. Ask a question in your own words through the form below, and I will read it myself. Book a conversation at a time that suits you, telling me whether you prefer voice or video, and I will confirm and send the link. Or share a document through the secure link, encrypted and private, so nothing sensitive travels an unsafe road.

A small, kindly note

Please note: The Old Man with a Cane is a service for adults. Every question must be submitted by a person who is eighteen years of age or older. If a question concerns a child, it must be asked by that child’s parent or legal guardian. This site and its answers are not directed to, or intended for use by, children. This first conversation is on me, so come with whatever is on your mind, and we will find the way forward together.

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